Vincent – Stop Smoking
We all have our habits, some are good and some are bad. The problem with the bad habits in life is that they are so difficult to break. We form pleasurable associations around our habits which in turn provokes the pleasure centres in our brain. When it comes to smoking, you can add to this the dependence created by nicotine which also activates the pleasure sensors in the brain. Changing our behaviour helps to break associations but changing behaviour is as hard as overcoming chemical dependence.
This was the problem facing Vincent who, by his early forties had been smoking for almost three decades. By no means a weak willed person, Vincent had used his strength of character, his will-power and determination in to succeed in life, running a car dealership in London. A hard headed businessman, Vincent was highly sceptical about hypnotism.
He had tried just about every known method to stop smoking; from cold-turkey to replacement therapies but each time the associations, which Vincent had built up over the years, were simply to strong for him. In his pressured working life, breaks took the form of a quick cigarette outside, while drinking and smoking were short cuts to relaxation after a stress-filled day. Vincent had tried to give up when on holiday, at his most relaxed, but even then found the urge to smoke after a good meal was too strong to resist. Despite his scepticism Vincent, like many successful people, had a “don’t knock it until you’ve tried it” approach to hypnotism.
The sessions went well, though Vincent was certain that he had not gone into a trance while in the office, he was stunned at the effect. His desire to smoke had evaporated. Six months later I received a call from Vincent asking if I would take some of his salesmen as clients. He admitted that he was still didn’t believe that he had actually gone into a trance during the session; however, he was absolutely certain that ‘something’ had changed in himself. His experience of hypnotism had not only helped him to quit, but had transformed his sceptical view of the technique and was more than happy to refer his friends and colleagues.
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